Texting While Driving, Smoking
My fiance broke up with me on xmas night and then I discovered he was Texting a girl nonstop for months?
He insists that “it’s not like that”. He’s 33 and she’s 20 and works with him. She’s very pretty and he said that he does think she’s cute but insists and even swore on our sons life that “it’s not like that”. At first he said that the hundreds and hundreds of text messages (sometimes from morning til night) were all about work related stuff. Then a few days later he said they were “just friends”.
Now he’s being a jerk and says it’s none of my business. I know that we’re not together now but it was happening for months (along with hour long phone calls on his cell) while we were together. He was hiding it from me as well. We were together for 10 years.
Then I drove by his sisters place where he’s been staying and this girls car was there. He says she stopped by to smoke pot with him, that’s all. He says hes “done” and I need to accept it. I’m so depressed. We have a 2 yr old son. Now he’s hanging & smoking pot with a 20 yr old girl. He’s 33!
I don’t know how to get over this.
ouch.
that hurts.
ofcourse there is the chance that they are just friends, but it’s doubtful. personally i think he did you a favor. and screwed himself over bigtime.
i’m in my early 20′s myself, and the ONLY reason i could see myself or any of my friends hanging out with a guy who is 33 is for one reason. MONEY.
he is not a loyal person. and she is obviously someone with no conscience or decency. She’s obviously still to self centered and immature to realize the value of family, and how hard it is to find someone that you’d marry and have a child with.
i’m so sorry that you’re going through this, but honey, if he is so unloyal both you AND your son deserve better. if it wasn’t her it’d be the next floozy to come around.
you can and will find someone worth your love and time. give up on this bastard, he’ll come crawling back in no time but just tell him that he’s not good enough. because really, he isn’t.
i know it’s easy to say but hard to do, especially when the pain and betrayl is so raw. but stay strong. the man of your dreams is just around the corner
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