christian dating advice “sex

My friend has an honorable dad whos strict &will kill her if she datesa christian guy or has sex be4 marriage?

She told me this and I thoughts its very wrong and I was wondering if anyone of you have some advice I could give to her so it could be persuasive enough to change their mind of such a ridiculous “honor”. It comes from her culture and she is muslim. Her dad literally said: “If you date/marry a christian guy, or have sex before marriage, I’ll kill you. What advice should I give to her?? She said really loves her parents!

There is no advie that you can give her—just your support. And with a father like that, she will need it!

And I cannot believe all the answerers who are condoning a father telling his daughter that he will kill her. Cutural or not, murdering your child over religion/beliefs…just wrong. Really shows how fundamentalism can take someone’s priorities (their own kids) and twist them so that their lives are forfeit.

By the way, our Christian Bible also advises parents to kill disobedient children. “Stone them to death”.

Wow—just blown away by how many people think this is “okay”.

Anyway, just support your friend, be there for her, and do what you can to comfort her. That’s all you can do right now.

Christian dating advice – No Touchy Feely!

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